The Essence Of Speed Dating
First of all we should define what is speed dating? Speed dating is a formalized matchmaking process; the main aim is to encourage people for getting know each other. In general, Rabbi Yaacov Deyo can be considered as the founder of speed dating. He helped the Jewish single men and women to meet.
The first speed dating event (1998) was held at “Pete’s Café” in Beverly Hills. By the year 2000 it become very popular movement in US.
How does it work?
When you arrive to the meeting place, you’ll be checked and then given a badge with your personal number on it. As soon as everyone will pass the procedure, the dating session will start. The man with number one on badge will start at table one, then in some time he’ll move to the second and so on. It will last until you have met everyone there.
What kind of people you can meet?
Most speed dating events match people at random. You can meet different “types” that you might not normally talk to. Speed dating is ideal way of getting know people for the one with busy lives. For people who don’t have much time and whish to have a chat in safe and peaceful environment.
How do you get in touch with them?
After the event, you log in to the website of the organization that offered you the service. You tick the people that you may want to see again. Then the system checks the results, and sends you an email whenever someone matches with you.
If you’re stuck for words, here are some questions you can use:
To know more information about the one in front of you:
- What do you do for a living?
- Are you more of a city or country person?
- Where are you from originally?
- How would your best friend describe you?
- What are the most important things you’re looking for in a person?
- What do you consider your best attributes?
Finding out the hobbies and interests:
- What kind of music do you like?
- What song best sums you up and why?
- What kind of movies do you like?
- What is your favorite film?
- What do you do for fun?
- What book are you reading at the moment?
- What did you do last weekend?
Questions for fun:
- If you had to be someone else for a day, who would you be and why?
- If you could live anywhere in the world, where would it be?
- What would be your ideal holiday destination - you can go and do whatever you want?
- What’s the most reckless thing you’ve ever done?
- What time in history would you like to be born in and why?
- If you were to star in a movie, what kind of film would it be and who would be your co-star?
- What would be the title of your biography?
- What is your favourite takeaway meal?
Some questions which will help you to break the ice:
- Which famous people would you invite to your perfect dinner party? And why?
- If a movie was made about your life, who would you want to play you?
- If you could be granted three wishes, what would they be?
- If you could live anywhere in the world where would it be?
- What’s your best joke?
- Do you have any bad habits?
- If your friends compared you to an animal, which animal would it be?
- Have you ever been told that you look like someone famous?
5 Ways To Say Goodbye, It’s Over
Breaking up with someone, you loved, is always hard. Why do people have to do it, if everything in your heart has already died? That the rules of the game called - love. There are a lot of articles about how to meet, but not how to break up. There are FIVE easy and only ONE proper way to break up. Here they are:
1. Break up with the help of SMS
Three words and it’s done, short and effective. For 5 cents your relationships are sent to a dustbin. You don’t have to be there, to see or to feel your partner’s reaction. If you really wanted to break up, never reply his answers.
2. Write to him that you want to break up
- Say “Goodbye” by e-mail
This way can be equal to SMS one. Pretty fast and without much pain it will help you to end up everything. Type the words, press ‘SEND’ button and then add his computer number to ignore list. Everything is simple, you don’t have to worry your heart about, awake the memories. Here is an example what you can say: Our love-boat has crashed. I’ll swim to one side, and you swim to another. Goodbye.
- Breaking up letter
If you can’t watch into his eyes, but you want to break up, the breaking up letter will help. You should think over each word, try not to make it too long, explain the reasons, let him know you don’t want it anymore. If he understands it correctly, he let you go, if not, he’ll need the answers.
3. Say “Goodbye” by phone
Break up with your partner by phone. Some say it’s almost an ideal way of breaking up, the others say it’s a complete lack of respect. Anyway you should prepare for such a talk. It can last for ten minutes, or even an hour. Such talks make you feel pain.
4. Help of your friend
Why should you do it, if you can ask your friend. Let your friend explain the situation and announce your break up. It’s an easy way, but you can lose a friend. What if they fall in love, you’ll lose them both. If it’s so hard for you to say or to write, you can try this option.
5. Personal meeting
The most proper and painful way of breaking up. Even if you’ve prepared for it, it’ll get out of control. Instead of tears you get anger. Instead of anger he gets tears or vice-versa. You can’t predict how it’s going to happen. Respect the man whom you share your sorrow and joy.
And remember, life is still flowing. Keep looking, don’t give up!
Get Into the Rhythm: 28 Awesome Dating Tips For Women
Here are some dating tips for women, but it’s not the rules, so it’s up to you what to choose:
1. Don’t show your interest from the first minute. Man loves the race and chase.
2. Try to find out if he has any woman as a friend. The man must know how to treat you as a friend, not only as a sexual object.
3. Don’t drink too much on a first date, even for bravery.
- Firstly, you’ll have to use bathroom too often.
- Secondly, you could say something wrong by mistake.
4. If the man reminds you your father, run away and run as fast as you can.
5. If you lower your demands, you can get married even tomorrow. So don’t do it, it’s better to wait for someone worthwhile, and not to waste your time on somebody who won’t last long.
6. If the man says he would take care of you, run away, everything will end upin a way that you’ll have to take care of him.
7. If the man dislikes food or coffee on a first date, make your conclusions. Criticizing something on a first date - what should you expect in month time?
8. Don’t look for faults! Some women break up the relations because the man has a huge head, too stinky perfume or too sharp shoes. Give them a chance to improve, or you could send away a nice person because of some minor detail.
9. Don’t lie too much. Later on you’ll have a problem to remember what you were talking on a first date.
10. Don’t have sex on a first date
11. Don’t make your first date last too long, or you won’t have too much topics left to discuss for the second date.
12. Never date more then one man. That’s very tiring and it can bring you some troubles. As a result, you’d break up with both of them.
13. Before going for a date, have courage, and decide if you’re ready to spend all your lifetime with one man.
14. If you’re comparing your new boyfriend with your ex-boyfriend, you’re not ready for a new relationship.
15. If you really like someone, don’t wait for him to call or to make the first step, take everything under your control. Or it’s going to be a waste of time.
16. Try to know who cleans his apartment, his mother or a maid. You need self-reliant man, don’t you?
17. You’ll meet the proper man as soon as you’ll become a REAL woman: confident, self-reliant and optimistic.
18. Refuse playing games with him. If you like the man, just come to him and get to know him. All that languishing signs aren’t working with a normal man
19. If the man talks about money all the time, it’s the first sign of hesitation about himself.
20. You oughtn’t to talk about wedding and kids on a first date.
21. Don’t make estimates and far going plans. One or two dates don’t mean anything.
22. Be realistic. However, each mother thinks that her daughter will marry a tall, beautiful and successful businessman. But what should you do if you’re not tall enough and having an interesting but not very prestigious job. Your life is going to change, as soon as you become a realist.
23. If you want to scare a man, just start talking about handbags or shoes.
24. Brush your teeth before going for a date. There can’t be anything worse than smiling with salad pieces.
25. It is better to switch the mobile phone to vibrating mode, or even turn it off.
26. Don’t accept an invitation to his apartment, even if all bars and restaurants are closed. And the streets are covered with impassable snow.
27. Don’t try to finish your date with a polite passionate kiss. Especially if you aren’t going to date with that man anymore.
28. It’s better to sit at home alone than date with complete looser.
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