The Golden Rule Of A Smooth Dating
The first dating is apparently the most exiting and thrilling one. What should you do so that the first meeting shouldn’t be the last at the same time?
Suppose you have chosen a girl you would like to date with, remember to keep to the particular rules which are however conventional in all the situations:
• You should provoke the girl’s interest
• You should be very polite
• Be aware she likes you
The first step will be to invite the girl and in case you have common friends or study at the same university, work in the same firm the task will become much easier. You should talk to her first of all, choose any abstract theme. The prior aim is to make the girl understand she will have a nice time with you. Ask her as though by chance about her plans for the evening. This is a slight hint which any girl will understand and give you the answer (hope positive). Once she agreed you are the master of the situation - since that moment all depends on you.
Still do not forget to ask her about the most suitable time so that she should be aware her opinion is not the last thing for you.
The time is set but this is only the beginning. The question rises – what clothe to choose to surprise her and to attract her attention? Try to keep to her style. If the girl prefers open and bright clothes put on something extreme. In case she likes strict and classical style you’d better choose a smart suite. This may however create the feeling of similar tastes at least in style. Do not neglect the very important detail – perfume – women like men who smell perfectly.
Remember about the time - women may be late for a dating , men never. Otherwise you run a risk to make a bad impression at the very beginning and the whole situation may com out of control.
Mood
Cheerfulness and simplicity are the warranties for a successful and smooth dating. Smile and be affable. Won’t be afraid to hold the girl by the hand it will bring you closer to each other. Funny stories from on your own experience or heard from others will be the proper topics to draw her attention and keep the conversation. But avoid being a “walking anecdote”, do not overcome sensible bounds.
The Golden Rule
Women do love with ears – do not stint compliments trying not to be a hypocrite.
Be attentive in spite all the common rules every case requires specific and personal approach.
Mistakes To Be Avoided On The First Meeting
Here comes the very day to invite the girl you got interested in to the first dating - and imagine she said ‘yes’. The main thing now is not to look like a fool and try to avoid those silly mistakes which may happen at the first meeting.
• Forgot to make a call.
The dating actually begins even before you meet. Try t o be a gentleman make sure the dating is still in power. If the girl thought you have forgotten about the arrangement she would decide to hang out with her friends instead. The best variant is to cal her early in the morning so that she should have lots of time to prepare for the meeting.
• Behave like a “billionaire”
Don’t spend the money thoughtlessly this makes no difference. The feeling of attraction and intimacy is something that you can’t buy, so try to impress by your well-manners and not the size of the purse. Approximately at the third meeting you’ll fell easy to share the expenses – for example you buy tickets to the cinema and she popcorn.
• To speak about your “previous’ ones
It’s better for her not to find out about your previous girlfriends. Some men like to tell about their experience thinking it will show the as “pretty chaps” but on the contrary - a girl may get bored. Avoid speaking about your previous “victories” unless she asks herself. And even in such case your answer should be precise and in one world. You should not look like a lady-killer.
• Too many complements
You like her for her attractiveness and charm, personal qualities still it’s not yet a reason to ‘bury” her under complements. A pair of fair ones will be enough. You should not make an impression that you are a hypocrite.
• Didn’t helped her out of the car
It’s obviously cool to have a car with automotive doors - better make her believe that gentlemen do exist. Accompany your girl to the car and open the door. This will be the first door to be opened at the dating.
• To find the venue
Fast-food restaurants are not proper for the first meeting especially. Find a place with adequate prices – not too low but not very high at the same time. Do not waste too much time to choose dishes from the menu, think every over beforehand to look more confident and to show the girl that everything is under the control. Let her make a choice by herself if she wants.