5 Ways To Say Goodbye, It’s Over
Breaking up with someone, you loved, is always hard. Why do people have to do it, if everything in your heart has already died? That the rules of the game called - love. There are a lot of articles about how to meet, but not how to break up. There are FIVE easy and only ONE proper way to break up. Here they are:
1. Break up with the help of SMS
Three words and it’s done, short and effective. For 5 cents your relationships are sent to a dustbin. You don’t have to be there, to see or to feel your partner’s reaction. If you really wanted to break up, never reply his answers.
2. Write to him that you want to break up
- Say “Goodbye” by e-mail
This way can be equal to SMS one. Pretty fast and without much pain it will help you to end up everything. Type the words, press ‘SEND’ button and then add his computer number to ignore list. Everything is simple, you don’t have to worry your heart about, awake the memories. Here is an example what you can say: Our love-boat has crashed. I’ll swim to one side, and you swim to another. Goodbye.
- Breaking up letter
If you can’t watch into his eyes, but you want to break up, the breaking up letter will help. You should think over each word, try not to make it too long, explain the reasons, let him know you don’t want it anymore. If he understands it correctly, he let you go, if not, he’ll need the answers.
3. Say “Goodbye” by phone
Break up with your partner by phone. Some say it’s almost an ideal way of breaking up, the others say it’s a complete lack of respect. Anyway you should prepare for such a talk. It can last for ten minutes, or even an hour. Such talks make you feel pain.
4. Help of your friend
Why should you do it, if you can ask your friend. Let your friend explain the situation and announce your break up. It’s an easy way, but you can lose a friend. What if they fall in love, you’ll lose them both. If it’s so hard for you to say or to write, you can try this option.
5. Personal meeting
The most proper and painful way of breaking up. Even if you’ve prepared for it, it’ll get out of control. Instead of tears you get anger. Instead of anger he gets tears or vice-versa. You can’t predict how it’s going to happen. Respect the man whom you share your sorrow and joy.
And remember, life is still flowing. Keep looking, don’t give up!
Do You Know How To Impress Girls?
Four simple, but believe me very effective ways to impress your girlfriend
1. Surprise her with a heart.
When it gets dark, place candles in a heart shape in front of her window. Then call her and ask to look out of the window.
The result is going to be amazing!
2. Floating in the evening
If you have a chance of reaching any water district and a boat, you can spend a great time floating together under the evening sky full of stars. Refreshing drinks could be perfect addition. If you don’t have a personal boat, each city has a yacht club where you can hire it.
3. Carriage ride
Quite a lot of cities can offer you a paid carriage ride. Such a ride will be very romantic and unforgettable. Especially it will amaze her when she doesn’t know anything about the ride (for example drop on her after the job).
4. Dinner at the beech
In the warm summer evening or even night you can have a good time on the beach. If you take a blanket, candles, refreshing drinks and some food, you can arrange a nice dinner. Besides, open fire and swimming under the night sky can give unforgettable memories to both of you
Personal Dating Behaviors That Turn Off The Girls
Here comes the moment you’ve waited for the whole life, the girl of your dreams has accepted your invitation. Now the main thing is not to screw up and not to make mistakes that commonly occurred on the first dates.
1. Don’t forget to call
Your date begins even before you met. Be gentleman and make sure that the date still stands. If she thought you’ve forgotten, she could go somewhere with her friends. The best option is to call her early in the morning, so she has enough time to prepare for a date with you tonight.
2. Don’t even try to impress her with the money you got
If you’re trying to get her with your money, it won’t work. The feelings of closeness and love aren’t the feelings you can buy, so show your ability of dispense with girls, not the size of your wallet. During the first few dates be a gentleman. About a third date, you will feel comfortable being together, so you can share all the expenses for two: you’ll pay for movie tickets, and she’ll pay for popcorn.
3. Don’t talk about your ex-
You shouldn’t talk about your previous ladies. A lot of guys love to talk and boast of their previous dating experience, but in fact, it’s boring to listen to all this. Avoid talking about your previous victories, if only she asked you about it. And even then the answer should be short.
4. Don’t make too many compliments
Of course, you love her for beauty and personal qualities, but don’t make a lot of compliments. Couple of complements would be enough. If there is too much praise, it will be a sign for her that you’re not the one she wants.
5. Open doors in front of her
If you have a car with automatic doors opening system, that’s cool, but show that chivalry isn’t dead yet. Follow her to the passenger’s side door and open it for her. That’s gonna be the first door you open for her on this date.
6. Places to invite her to
Dinner on your first date should not take place in a fast-food restaurant like McDonalds. Find a good and cozy place, where you both would feel comfortable, but don’t show off, bringing her to an expensive restaurant. Do not waste much time on choosing dishes in the menu. You should think about everything before hand, so you could show her, you have everything under control. But if she wants to choose, let her make her choice.
7. Talking on the phone
Turn off the phone. Dates should not be interrupted by the phone calls or text messages. Show her, she is the only one, you’re interested in right now.
Girls please tell us what other mistakes your boyfriend occurred on a first date.