Mistakes To Be Avoided On The First Meeting
Here comes the very day to invite the girl you got interested in to the first dating - and imagine she said ‘yes’. The main thing now is not to look like a fool and try to avoid those silly mistakes which may happen at the first meeting.
• Forgot to make a call.
The dating actually begins even before you meet. Try t o be a gentleman make sure the dating is still in power. If the girl thought you have forgotten about the arrangement she would decide to hang out with her friends instead. The best variant is to cal her early in the morning so that she should have lots of time to prepare for the meeting.
• Behave like a “billionaire”
Don’t spend the money thoughtlessly this makes no difference. The feeling of attraction and intimacy is something that you can’t buy, so try to impress by your well-manners and not the size of the purse. Approximately at the third meeting you’ll fell easy to share the expenses – for example you buy tickets to the cinema and she popcorn.
• To speak about your “previous’ ones
It’s better for her not to find out about your previous girlfriends. Some men like to tell about their experience thinking it will show the as “pretty chaps” but on the contrary - a girl may get bored. Avoid speaking about your previous “victories” unless she asks herself. And even in such case your answer should be precise and in one world. You should not look like a lady-killer.
• Too many complements
You like her for her attractiveness and charm, personal qualities still it’s not yet a reason to ‘bury” her under complements. A pair of fair ones will be enough. You should not make an impression that you are a hypocrite.
• Didn’t helped her out of the car
It’s obviously cool to have a car with automotive doors - better make her believe that gentlemen do exist. Accompany your girl to the car and open the door. This will be the first door to be opened at the dating.
• To find the venue
Fast-food restaurants are not proper for the first meeting especially. Find a place with adequate prices – not too low but not very high at the same time. Do not waste too much time to choose dishes from the menu, think every over beforehand to look more confident and to show the girl that everything is under the control. Let her make a choice by herself if she wants.
Dating “in the Dark”
What New Datings Are Like?
More and more people nowadays prefer to make the acquaintances by means of ISQ and numerous internet sites. They seek either for new friends, business partners or even true love.
Despite the fact that you may talk to a person for hours, get to know almost everything about his/her interests, even receive several photos the reality may appear to be quite different. Sometimes “blind” dating may turn to a real trial slowly but steadily developing into catastrophe.
When you decide on the dating so to say “in the dark”, you should think over all the possible variants and venues to make it unforgettable and not to find yourself in an awkward situation. Here are 6 tips for the successful “blind” dating.
Tips to Help
• Take the situation under the control. Do not allow others to make you do whatever they want. Do not be shy to say “no”. You are not obliged to meet the person only not to offend him/her. Participate actively in the preparations. Try to exclude other unknown factors except the “enigmatic person” you are to meet. Chose the venue and create the atmosphere which will make you feel easy and comfortable.
• Cinema is not the most proper place for the first dating as well as rock concert for example. It’s better to set the meeting in a cafe or restaurant, with pleasant live music and a good cuisine. The aim of the first dating is to find out about each other some facts, to make an opinion and just to have a good time.
• Do not drag out. Whatever you do, do not hold the first dating for more than two hours. It’s also proper to meet at the restaurant for dinner has the beginning, the culmination, and the ending so implies the natural progress of events. The check fetched by a waitress may become a signal to finish the dating. If the first meeting seemed to be short arrange another one.
• Do not allow “the third part” to present at your meeting. It may interfere – you’ll feel uneasy and confused.
• Discuss the friend who has represented you to each other. Common acquaintances is a perfect theme for getting closer, which gives you an opportunity to look attentively at each other without excessive importunity. Avoid gossiping about common friends it may make an unpleasant impression.
• Come to the dating in a good mood. Remember that some people mistakenly consider “blind” dating to be the last hope for those who “are in despair”. Show your interest towards the interlocutor. Even if you don’t feel something specially romantic about this person you may find him/her to be a good friend.
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